The code of ethics of synergology

Nonverbal communication can be observed and therefore validated or disavowed on the basis of scientific criteria. For example, if we say of a person that she experiences a positive emotion, her lower eyelid is always retracted or elevated (referring to the muscle under the eye). It is therefore impossible to discern the whiteness of the eye under the iris. There is no mistake: it is true or false. To prove the veracity or falsity of this proposal we will need a stock of video clips of people being very excited for positive reasons. If, in addition to one in ten videos, the white of the lower eye is visible, the synergological proposal is invalidated. For its veracity to be total, it would then be necessary to compare these images with expressions in which the eyes are sad, by observing precisely how the lower eyelid of the sad eye shows the lower white of the eye, which is very visible. On this basis, we do not hesitate to say that in the field of reading nonverbal communication, there are charlatans simply because their proposals have not gone through thiscontrol barrier , saying some things that are true, but unable to demonstrate it formally. In training courses, specialists in synergology will show you numerous proofs of the legitimacy of this discipline of the human sciences. Whenever the opportunity arises, a new proposal is proposed to scientists. This is what the code of ethics for synergology (AQS and AES) suggests.

Recent knowledge in neuroscience is of great importance in the development of synergology and has given meaning to a structurally different way of approaching body language. Based on how the brain works the method can decrypt the body language in a very effective and reliable way. The synergologist verifies his results according to scientific criteria and provable. The goal in synergology is to have a better understanding of communication and to check its acceptances and has proved to be very valuable where the goal is to improve performance in communication skills and non-verbal language. The goal is to improve synergology to decipher the functioning of the human brain through body language.

Synergology, more commonly called body language science, has recognized the findings of some researchers in accordance with the observations of “Palo Alto School,” the findings of Ray Birdwhistell, Edward T. Hall, Gregory Bateson, Paul Watzlawick but he also founded his own theory on the basis of this school of thought. The Palo Alto trend is to bring together all the contradictions between verbal and non-verbal language. Synergology recognizes that non-verbal language is solely responsible for these contradictions, that non-verbal language can have a dual meaning. Synergologists can decode all bodily behaviors without using sound. This undoubtedly proves that body language alone can sometimes be contradictory.

Synergology introduces new concepts in the non-verbal domain, from the observation of bodily reactions that had never been isolated and which had been described until now as being micro-movements. The last contribution in neuroscience was decisive on the progression of synergology. The assumptions on which it relies indeed to find their thanks scientific substrates for the intensification and confirmation of new data from neurobiology and neuropsychology. Because of this amazing discovery, every physical gesture will require some activity in the brain, thus eliminating any contradiction through the bodily movement. This allows nonverbal communication and body language to be observed in a new semantic field. These micro-movements of the body lange appear when one fills the comments which contradict the openly expressed information. This astounding discovery places body language as an essential witness of the activity of the mind that clarifies these contradictions by translating them on the body. It allows nonverbal communication to be observed in a new semantic field.

The cougar woman, fashion effect or new way of life?

While everyone now knows the existence and the definition of the cougar woman it is good to ask ourselves if we are facing a lasting or ephemeral phenomenon? In fact, will we still talk about cougares when it becomes totally banal and that the series Cougar Town has ceased to be broadcast? Nothing is less sure.

Indeed it is not the first time that a buzz lasts 1 year or 2 before going out. Everyone remembers the “pogs” phenomenon. What about today ? Fallen to oblivion.

But perhaps then it should already be ready for a new phenomenon that may come tumbling in France at high speed: The sugar daddy . I can see you from here poor readers asking you what is this new English term! And probably this is the new phenomenon that will exceed that of the cougar. Finished the sexy mature woman who is looking for a handsome young man to put in the tooth. We reverse the roles, we take the same and we start again!

This being like the cougars, sugar daddy already exist. They have just for the moment no label in France. The same is true for the cougars that did not appear in 2010 but that existed at all times (in a much smaller number than today certainly). We just did not call them that yet.

In conclusion can we really think that the cougar phenomenon will go out? No, it’s just going to get into the mores. We can not consider that the cougar will disappear but on the contrary it is a safe bet that his way of life will become totally banal and will not make any more the buzz. After all, older men with young women are running the streets and nobody talks about it ..